## Shellshock: Bashing Bash for Fun and Profit

The latest fundamental computer security vulnerability, termed Shellshock, was discovered by a vulnerability researcher Stephane Chazelas (a linux shell expert living in the UK) which allows for arbitrary code execution on linux or mac computers through creating a custom environment variable. If you haven’t already, you need to patch your system(s) and you might be hearing a lot more about this in the near future.

Since it is common for a lot of programs to run Bash shell in the background, a number of devices (the “internet of things”) may be vulnerable. I’m used to really complicated exploits, but this is really a one-liner:
env x='() { :;}; echo vulnerable' bash -c "echo this is a test"
Because of this simplicity there is massive speculation of an imminent arrival of a worm that can traverse multiple vulnerable systems.

## Why does this matter?

Bash is everywhere — particularly in things that don’t look like computers (like pacemakers or cars). It is a UNIX like shell, which is on nearly every Linux system. From its creation in 1980, bash has evolved from a simple terminal based command interpreter to many other fancy uses, particularly as linux became present in our phones, cars and refrigerators.

An exploit that operates at this level will be lurking around in all various and sundry sorts of software, both local and remote. Embedded devices often have web-enabled front-ends to shuttle user input back and forth via bash shells, for example — routers, SCADA/ICS devices, medical equipment, and all sorts of web-connected gadgets are likely to be exposed. Additionally linux distributions and Mac OS are both vulnerable–even though the major attack vectors that have been identified up to this point are HTTP requests and CGI scripts.

This all happens because bash keeps executing after processing function definitions; it continues to parse and execute shell commands following a function definition. Especially problematic is the ability for environment variables with arbitrary names to be used as a carrier for a malicious function definitions which containing trailing commands. In particular, this enables network-based exploitation and therefore propagation on a large scale. To get some feel for how easy this can propagate see the example below where a simple wget (just a request for a web page) executes this in one line:

wget -U "() { test;};/usr/bin/touch /tmp/VULNERABLE" myserver/cgi-bin/test

## How does it work?

The NIST vulnerability database gives the flaw 10 out of 10 in terms of severity and provides the short, but dense, description:

GNU Bash through 4.3 processes trailing strings after function definitions in the values of environment variables, which allows remote attackers to execute arbitrary code via a crafted environment, as demonstrated by vectors involving the ForceCommand feature in OpenSSH sshd, the mod_cgi and mod_cgid modules in the Apache HTTP Server, scripts executed by unspecified DHCP clients, and other situations in which setting the environment occurs across a privilege boundary from Bash execution.
Authentication: Not required to exploit
Impact Type: Allows unauthorized disclosure of information; Allows unauthorized modification; Allows disruption of service

Let’s unpack this, because it didn’t make sense to me on a first read.

The key insight is that Bash supports exporting not just shell variables, but also shell functions to other bash instances. Bash uses an environment variable named by the function name, and a function definition starting with “() {” in the variable value to propagate function definitions. What should happen here is that bash should stop after processing the function definition, however, it continues to parse and execute shell commands after the function definition. To make this concrete, assume that you set an environment variable:

VAR=() { ignored; }; /bin/exploit_now

This will execute /bin/exploit_now when the environment is imported into the bash process. The fact that an environment variable with an arbitrary name can be used as a carrier for a malicious function definition containing trailing commands makes this vulnerability particularly severe; it enables network-based exploitation.

## But, how could I be vulnerable?

On first blush, why should you care? Your are not giving shell access to strangers. To characterize the initial vulnerability space, let’s look at web applications. Web applications connect most all the networks in existence and form a large part of our digital economy, but the big problem is that web applications aren’t limited to web-browsers. Your router at home has a web-server as do other embedded devices (such as my thermostat).

When one requests a web page via the HTTP protocol, a typical request looks like this:

GET /path?query-param-name=query-param-value HTTP/1.1 Host: www.mysite.com Custom: some header value
The CGI specification maps all parts to environment variables. With Apache httpd, the magic string “() {” can appear in the values above. An environmental variable with an arbitrary name can carry a nefarious function which can enable network exploitation.

## A (little) bit deeper

To understand a little more of what happens, consider the following:

$env x='() { :;}; echo pwned' bash -c "echo this is a test" The result above is because the parsing of function definitions from strings (which in this case are environment variables) can have wider effects than intended. Vulnerable systems interpret arbitrary commands that occur after the termination of the function definition. This is due to insufficient (or non-existent) constraints in the determination of acceptable function-like strings in the environment. If the function defined in x does some sneaky underhanded work, there is no way that bash can check if the return value if function x is real. Notice the function is empty above. An unchecked return value can lead to script injection. Script injection leads to privilege escalation and privilege escalation leads to root access. To fix this, most patches will disable the creation of x as a function. Good luck, and I hope this doesn’t overly burden the well-meaning folks out there who just want computers to work securely so we can do our jobs. Right now the race is on. Vulnerability was found yesterday, exploits showed up this morning. Metasploit already has a plugin. I hope your patch gets there before the exploits do. In any case, the smart money is on the arrival of a full blown worm in the next several days. Get ready. ## Some deeper (better) reading: • https://securityblog.redhat.com/2014/09/24/bash-specially-crafted-environment-variables-code-injection-attack/ • http://www.theregister.co.uk/2014/09/24/bash_shell_vuln/ ## Playing with Matched Filters During my time on the red team, we continually discussed the role of matched filters in everything from GPS to fire control radars. While I’m having a blast at DARPA where I work in cyber, I wanted to review an old topic and put MATLAB’s phased array toolbox to the test. (Yes, radar friends this is basic stuff. I’m mostly writing this to refresh my memory and remember how to code. Maybe a fellow-manager might find this review helpful, but if you are in this field, there won’t be anything interesting or new below.) ### Why use matched filters? Few things are more fundamental to RADAR performance than the fact that probability of detection increases with increasing signal to noise ratio (SNR). For a deterministic signal in white Gaussian noise (a good assumption as any regarding background noise but the noise does not need to be Gaussian for a matched filter to work), the SNR can be maximized at the receiver by using a filter matched to the signal. One thing that always confused me about matched filters was that they really aren’t a type of filter, but more of a framework that aims to reduce the effect of noise which results in a higher signal to noise ratio. One way I’ve heard this described is that the matched filter is a time-reversed and conjugated version of the signal. The math helps to understand what is going on here. In particular, I want to derive that the peak instantaneous signal power divided by the average noise power at the output of a matched filter is equal to twice the input signal energy divided by the input noise power, regardless of the waveform used by the radar. Suppose we have some signal$r(t) = s(t) + n(t)$where$n(t)$is the noise and$s(t)$is the signal. The signal is finite, with duration$T$and let’s assume the noise is white gaussian noise with spectral height$N_0/2$. If the aggregated signal is input into a filter with impulse response$h(t)$and the resultant output is$y(t)$you can write the signal and noise outputs ($y_s$and$y_n$) in the time domain: $$y_s(t) = \int_0^t s(u) h(t-u)\,du$$ $$y_n(t) = \int_0^t n(u) h(t-u)\,du$$ Since we want to minimize the SNR, we expand the above: $$\text{SNR} = \frac{y_s^2(t)}{E\left[y_n^2(t) \right]}$$ $$= \frac{ \left[ \int_0^t s(u) h(t-u)\,du \right]^2}{\text{E}\left[ \int_0^t n(u) h(t-u)\,du \right]^2}$$ The denominator can be expanded: $$\text{E} \left[y_n^2(t) \right] = \left[ \int_0^t n(u) h(t-u)\,du \int_0^t n(v) h(t-v)\,dv \right]$$ Or $$\int_0^t \int_0^t E [ n(u) n(v) ] h(t-u) h(t-v) du\,dv$$ We can further simplify this by invoking a standard white noise model: $$E[y_n^2] = \frac{N_0}{2} \int_0^t \int_0^t \delta(u-v) h(t-u) h(t – v) du\,dv$$ Which simplifies nicely to: $$\frac{N_0}{2} \int_0^t h^2 (t – u) du$$ Now all together we get: $$SNR = \frac{ \left[ \int_0^t s(u) h(t-u)\,du \right]^2 }{\frac{N_0}{2} \int_0^t h^2 (t – u) du }$$ In order to further simplify, we employ the Cauchy-Schwarz Inequality which says, for any two points (say$A$and$B$) in a Hilbert space, $$\langle A, B \rangle^2 \leq |A|^2 |B|^2 \text{,}$$ and is only equal when$A = k\,B$where$k$is a constant. Applying this, we can then look at the numerator: $$\left| \int_0^t s(u)\,q(u) du \right|^2 \leq \int_0^t s^2(u) du \int_0^t q^2(u) du$$ and equality is acheived when$k\,s(u) = q(u)$. If we pick$h(t-u)$to be equal to$k\,s(u)$, we can write our optimal SNR as: $$SNR^{\text{opt}} (t) = \frac{k \left[ \, \int_0^t s^2 (u) duN \right]^2 } { \frac{N_0 k^2}{2} \int_0^t s^2(u) du } = \frac{\int_0^t s^2(u) du }{ N_0/2 }$$ Since$s(t)$always has a finite duration$T$, then SNR is maximized by setting$t=T$which provides the well known formula: $$SNR^{\text{opt}} = \frac{\int_0^T s^2(u) du}{N_0/2} = \frac{2 \epsilon}{N_0}$$ ### So, what can we do with matched filters? Let’s look at an example that compares the results of matched filtering with and without spectrum weighting. (Spectrum weighting is often used with linear FM waveforms to reduce sidelobes.) The most simple pulse compression technique I know is simply shifting the frequency linearly throughout the pulse. For those not familiar with pulse compression, a little review might be helpful. One fundamental issue in designing a good radar system is it’s capability to resolve small targets at long ranges with scant separation. This requires high energy, and the easiest way to do that is to transmit a longer pulse with enough energy to detect a small target at long range. However, a long pulse degrades range resolution. We can have our cake and eat it to if we encode a frequency change in the longer pulse. Hence, frequency or phase modulation of the signal is used to achieve a high range resolution when a long pulse is required. The capabilities of short-pulse and high range resolution radar are significant. For example, high range resolution allows resolving more than one target with good accuracy in range without using angle information. Many other applications of short-pulse and high range resolution radar are clutter reduction, glint reduction, multipath resolution, target classification, and Doppler tolerance. The LFM pulse in particular has the advantage of greater bandwidth while keeping the pulse duration short and envelope constant. A constant envelope LFM pulse has an ambiguity function similar to that of the square pulse, except that it is skewed in the delay-Doppler plane. Slight Doppler mismatches for the LFM pulse do not change the general shape of the pulse and reduce the amplitude very little, but they do appear to shift the pulse in time. Before going forward, I wanted to establish the math of an LFM pulse. With a center frequency of$f_0$and chirp slope$b$, we have a simple expression for the intra-pulse frequency shift: $$\phi (t) = f_0 \, t + b\,t^2$$ If you take the derivative of the phase function, instantaneous frequency is: $$\omega_i (t) = f_0 + 2\,b\,t.$$ For a chirp pulse width in the interval$[0, T_p]$,$\omega_i(0) = f_0$is the minimum frequency and$\omega_i(T_P) = f_0 + 2b\,T_P$is the maximum frequency. The sweep bandwidth is then$2\,bT_p$and if the unit pulse is$u(t)$a single pulse could be described as: $$S(t) = u(t) e^{j 2 \pi (f_0 t + b t^2)} \text{.}$$ I learn by doing, so I created a linear FM waveform with a duration of 0.1 milliseconds, a sweep bandwidth of 100 kHz, and a pulse repetition frequency of 5 kHz. Then, we will add noise to the linear FM pulse and filter the noisy signal using a matched filter. We will then observe how the matched filter works with and without spectrum weighting. Which produces the following chirped pulse, From here, we create two matched filters: one with no spectrum weighting and one with a taylor window. We can see then see the signal input and the matched filter output: To really see how this works we need to add some noise: {aaa01f1184b23bc5204459599a780c2efd1a71f819cd2b338cab4b7a2f8e97d4} Create the signal and add noise. sig = step(hwav); rng(17) x = sig+0.5*(randn(length(sig),1)+1j*randn(length(sig),1));  And we can see the impact noise has on the original signal: and the final output (both with and without a Taylor window): #### The Ambiguity Function While it is cool to see the matched filter working, my background is more in stochastic modeling and my interest is in the radar ambiguity function — which is a much more comprehensive way to examine the performance of a matched filter. The ambiguity function is a two-dimensional function of time delay and Doppler frequency$\chi(\tau,f)$showing the distortion of a returned pulse due to the receiver matched filter due to the Doppler shift of the return from a moving target. It is the time response of a filter matched to a given finite energy signal when the signal is received with a delay$\tau$and a Doppler shift$\nu$relative to the nominal values expected by the filter, or: $$|\chi ( \tau, \nu)| = \left| \int_{-\infty}^{\infty} u(t)u^* (t + \tau) exp(j 2 \pi \nu t) dt \right| \text{.}$$ ### What is the ambiguity function of an uncompressed pulse? For an uncompressed, rectangular, pulse the ambiguity function is relatively simple and symmetric. ### What does the ambiguity function look like for the LFM pulse described above? If we compare two pulses, each with a dutycycle of one (PRF is 20 kHz, and pulsewidth is 50 µs), we can see their differing ambiguity functions: If we look at the ambiguity function of an LFM pulse with the following properties: SampleRate: 200000 PulseWidth: 5e-05 PRF: 10000 SweepBandwidth: 100000 SweepDirection: 'Up' SweepInterval: 'Positive' Envelope: 'Rectangular' OutputFormat: 'Pulses' NumPulses: 5  then we can see how complex the surface is: . ### References • http://www.ece.gatech.edu/research/labs/sarl/tutorials/ECE4606/14-MatchedFilter.pdf • Matlab help files ## One Time Pad Cryptography This was much harder than it should have been. While this is the certainly the most trivial post on crypto-math on the webs, I wanted to share my MATLAB xor code in the hope that I save someone else’s time. It is a basic property of cryptography that a one time pad must be used only once. A example like this makes it very concrete: Suppose you are told that the one time pad encryption of the message “attack at dawn” is 09e1c5f70a65ac519458e7e53f36 (the plaintext letters are encoded as 8-bit ASCII and the givenciphertext is written in hex). What would be the one time pad encryption of the message “attack at dusk” under the same OTP key? Let$m_0$be the message “attack at dawn”, then$m_1$is the message “attack at dusk”, and$c_1$,$c_2$the corresponding ciphertexts. If$p\$ is the one-time pad (OTP) that encrypts the message, we then have:

$$c_0 = m_0 \oplus p$$

So we can obtain the one-time pad by performing an XOR of the ciphertext with the plaintext:

$$p = c_0 \oplus m_0 \text{.}$$

This enables us to encrypt the new message without using the OTP explicitly:

$$c_1 = m_1 \oplus p = m_1 \oplus \left(c_0 \oplus m_0 \right) = c_0 \oplus (m_0 \oplus m_1) \text{.}$$

You could truncate down to the only characters that are different, but since I’m writing a script for this, I didn’t bother.

In python this would be super short:

def strxor(s1,s2):
return ''.join(chr(ord(a) ^ ord(b)) for a,b in zip(s1,s2))

strxor(strxor("6c73d5240a948c86981bc294814d".decode('hex'), "attack at dawn"), "attack at dusk").encode('hex')

>>>'6c73d5240a948c86981bc2808548'


But, the government won’t allow me to have python on my laptop and I need to use matlab.

• My course slides: http://spark-university.s3.amazonaws.com/stanford-crypto/slides/02-stream-v2-annotated.pdf
• Another Solution: http://crypto.stackexchange.com/questions/10534/how-to-decode-an-otp-message
• Some good general info: http://www.binaryvision.nl/3075/statistical-test/

## Cryptography

We are swimming in a sea of information. Without encryption this whole operation would be a very public event. Encryption enables our communications to be anonymous or secure and makes e-commerce and private communications possible. Because of this, I registered for Dan Boneth’s cryptography course. At this point, I’ve only watched one lecture, but I have some initial thoughts (and some code) that I wanted to jot down.

At it’s most simple, Encryption is used to convert data into a form that a third party can’t read. There are multiple reasons for wanting to do this, but the most common is a desire for security or privacy. In a more comprehensive sense, the aim of cryptography is to construct and analyze protocols that overcome the influence of adversaries and which are related to various aspects in information security such as data confidentiality, data integrity, authentication, and non-repudiation. Modern cryptography is heavily based on mathematical theory and assumptions about the capability of current computer hardware. No code is infinitely secure, and is theoretically possible to break, but a “secure code” is considered infeasible to break by any known practical means. The study of encryption is of high interest to me, because it intersects many of my current interests: the disciplines of mathematics, computer science, and electrical engineering.

Dan Boneth’s initial lecture covered the traditional overview, definition and history of cryptography. His overview was rich with basic applications of cryptography and its role in our lives today.

The concept of encryption and decryption requires some extra information to encode and decode the signal. Though this information takes many forms, it is commonly known as the key. There may be cases when same key can be used for both encryption and decryption (a shared key) while in certain cases, encryption and decryption may require different keys (such as a public/private key arrangement) and this is one way to organize existing techniques.

He provides a strong admonishment to use “standard cryptographic primitives” that have withstood public scrutiny and makes the point that without the necessary peer-review by a very large community of hundreds of people for many, many, many years, one can’t trust a cryptographic implementation. For this reason he admonishes the student to never trust an implementation based on proprietary primitives. (The student is left to wonder what exactly a cryptographic primitive is.)

He highlights that cryptography has its limitations and even a secure cryptographic channel does not guarantee a secure implementation. It was helpful that he followed this statement up with what exactly an insecure implementation is by surveying how to break different ciphers. He mentions an known insecure Blu-Ray protection standard called AACS and mentions an additional forthcoming discussion of the mechanics of its compromise.

From here, he discusses applications such as private elections and auctions and also the mechanism of digital signatures. He ends the lecture by discussing some of the “magic” recent developments in encryption such as homomorphic encryption — where operations can be accomplished on encrypted data without decryption. (See the DARPA proceed program.) This has fascinating applications such as the ability to query a database without providing an observer of database (before, during or after) any insight into the nature of the query.

He closes with a discussion stating that any cryptographic implementation has three requirements: precise specification of a threat model, a proposed construction, and a proof that breaking construction under threat mode will solve an underlying hard problem.

The next lecture was my favorite. Here, Boneth surveyed the history of cryptography which included a lot of the codes you play with in school such as symmetric and substitution cyphers, along with a discussion how to break these by using frequency and pattern recognition techniques. (Mostly based on known distributions of letters in the underlying language.)

He then introduces interesting ciphers such as the caesar cipher. In the Caesar cipher each letter of the alphabet is shifted along some number of places; for example, in a Caesar cipher of shift 3, A would become D, B would become E, Y would become B and so on. He then moves on to more complex ciphers such as the Vigenère cipher (a simple form of polyalphabetic substitution developed in Rome in the 16th century) and an interesting discussion of rotor machines (the most famous of which was the German Enigma). The Vigenère cipher consists of several Caesar ciphers in sequence with different shift values. He ended with the lecture with a quick description of modern encryption techniques.

I always enjoy these introductory lectures of a course — I can generally follow everything and am excited about the material. A lot of my friend in college would not go to the first lecture, but I never missed it. It was always go to at least one lecture where I could follow along. This sounds like it will be an interesting ride.

Enough of the discussion; let’s see how this works. As discussed above, the Vigenère cipher produces encrypted ciphertext from an input plaintext message using a key and a matrix of substitution alphabets. From the MATLAB below, you can generate the Vigenère square, also known as the tabula recta, this table can be used for encryption and decryption. It consists of the alphabet written out 26 times in different rows, each alphabet shifted cyclically to the left compared to the previous alphabet, corresponding to the 26 possible Caesar ciphers. At different points in the encryption process, the cipher uses a different alphabet from one of the rows. The alphabet used at each point depends on a repeating keyword.

Let’s try this with MATLAB (see code below). If I use a key of ‘Ceasar knows something you do not’ and a secret message of Titus Lucretius Carus (a Roman epicurean epic poet), we get:

encrypt('Titus Lucretius Carus', 'Ceasar knows something you do not')
VMTLSQKDPE KHLFLGTYBE
decrypt('VMTLSQKDPE KHLFLGTYBE', 'Ceasar knows something you do not')
TITUS LUCRETIUS CARUS


It works!

## Review: Boys Should Be Boys: 7 Secrets to Raising Healthy Sons

From a one-star review on Amazon:

The content was obvious and the tone was judgmental. The complete lack of nuance is painful. Apparently receiving an MD over 25 years ago makes this Dr. Laura-style author an expert in child psychology? Let’s leave the psychology topics to those professionally trained in that discipline.

I’ve always enjoyed Meg Meeker’s books and her latest is no exception. She’s very practical and conversational, but she brings together a refreshing mix of social conservatism with practical medical know-how. Every chapter is focused towards concrete advice for parents to become more effective in crafting the virtue (and therefore well-being) of our sons. As the quote above shows, she presents a perspective that is out of sync with aspects of modern culture, and in particular with modern medicine’s trend of hyper-specialization and the unwritten rule to leave moral judgments out of medical advice. We all know this trend has risks: a specialist is going to miss the whole person concept that is critical to understand as we tackle a problem as complex as parenting. By forcing those who give us medical and parenting advice to be materialists is to force life’s great questions out of the discussion. A materialist view misses the most important dynamics in developing character and sons who become men of virtue.

Meg Meeker explains that boys need the freedom to explore and test their limits, even if this means some scrapes, bruises and difficult moments. She tries to strike the balance between helicopter and laissez-faire parenting. She slices through these two extremes with a simple call to engage: to double the time we spend with our boys all the while loving them enough to force them to grow in difficult and engaging situations.

It is out of the tension of caring too little and not caring enough that she weaves her plan for an ideal father. In many ways, I find her book more interesting for what it says not to do than what it says to do. She reminds us of the danger in letting our boys be cast adrift into a toxic mix of video games, ersatz online relationships, and a hyper-sexualized culture that emphasizes in individual’s emotion over an external, and fixed, framework of morality.

She makes it clear that there’s no substitute for personal time and attention. She paints the ideal parent as always engaged and aware of what their children are doing in a manner that doesn’t dictate the details of their life but does pour compassion and love into their schedule while allowing them to grow and develop in natural situations. In reading her book, she makes it clear that to avoid the harmful influences of society, we as fathers have to be committed and focused to protecting them in fostering the right environment which allows them to develop in healthy ways.

In 12 chapters she starts with a review of the problem and then goes over seven areas of focus. Here, in brief they are:

• Know how to encourage your son. One fault is babying and spoiling him. But another is being so harsh that you lose communication with your son and destroy his sense of self worth. We’ll look at how to strike the right balance.
• Understand what your boys need. Guess what? It’s not another computer game; it’s you. We’ll look at how to get the most of your time with your son.
• Recognize that boys were made for the outdoors. Boys love being outside. A healthy boy needs that sense of adventure— and the reality check that the outdoors gives him.
• Remember that boys need rules. Boys instinctively have a boy code. If you don’t set rules, however, they feel lost.
• Acknowledge that virtue is not just for girls. Boys should, indeed, be boys—but boys who drink, take drugs, and have sex outside of marriage aren’t “normal” teenagers, they have been abnormally socialized by our unfortunately toxic culture. Today, my practice as a pediatrician has to deal with an epidemic of serious, even life-threatening, problems—physical and psychological—that were of comparatively minor concern only forty years ago. A healthy boy strives after virtues like integrity and self-control. In fact, it is virtues like these that make a boy’s transition to manhood possible.
• Learn how to teach your son about the big questions in life. Many parents shy away from this, either because they are uncomfortable with these questions themselves, or want to dismiss them as unimportant or even pernicious, or because they don’t want to “impose” their views on their children. But whatever one’s personal view, your son wants to know— and needs to know—why he’s here, what his purpose in life is, why he is important. Boys who don’t have a well-grounded understanding on these big questions are the most vulnerable to being led astray into self-destructive behaviors.
• Remember, always, that the most important person in your son’s life is you.

In the second chapter, she addresses how to deal with peer pressure with a particular emphasis on how toxic are culture is for boys and their identities. She goes on from this to discuss boy’s natural tendencies and how helpful rough and dangerous activities can be. This is exactly the natural state of boys development. She points out that neighborhood games practiced by boys with different ages force them to learn important life lessons which they can’t learn anywhere else.

In the fourth chapter, she explores the role between electronics, virtual worlds and the influence they have on the development of young boys. I’d recommend to all parents of young children read Parmy Olson’s book “We are Anonymous” to better understand how amazingly toxic (and captivating) the underbelly of the internet is for children. (Something we all know, but she brings it forward in vivid detail.)

In an interesting turn, she then explores the societal animosity towards teenage boys. I just finished Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In in which she makes an excellent case for societal biases against women leaders in business. By contrast, Meeker makes an excellent point that society presents a self reinforcing feedback loop that cast teenage boys as moody, depressed and angry. She makes some excellent points that have particular poignancy coming from a medical professional who is used to dealing with teenage boys: it is okay to be depressed and moody and not the cause of alarm or overreaction from parents. The solution is more old-fashioned that our modern and hyper specialized world wants: more time and attention — in the context of a strategic perspective.

However, the focus of our increased time and attention is the subject of the next chapter. Chapter 6 talks about practical ways to build self-confidence and mental health in our boys. She talks about the critical importance of the fathers blessing, something that always proved far too elusive for me. She describes the feeling of true accomplishment as a powerful emotional resource builder. (I think it’s helpful to contrast true accomplishment with the common empty fawning praise and declarations of how special my children are that they find in school.)

Particular convicting is her clarion call to live my life in an exemplary way that sets the right standards for my son. I want to model the virtues that he should have and she challenges us to picture our son at the age of 25 and to foster those virtues we desire in him — much in the same way Dan Allender’s Bold Love tells us to carefully and tirelessly pursue love with the cunning of a fox.

She moves on in the next chapter to discuss why so many men are merely aged adolescents: They never got through the transition from being a boy to becoming a man. She diagnoses this, in her clinical way, as the result of the absence of a father’s guidance.

She matches this with the next chapter that talks about the importance of faith and of the knowledge of an external God to whom boys feel accountability. She describes how a faith in God helps children to have a well of hope to draw from as life gets tough and develop an understanding of love that is more than a pleasurable act between bodies, to understand the importance of truth and accountability as well as the critical importance of repentance forgiveness and grace to young child. Here as in the rest of the book she makes it clear that this doesn’t mean simply dropping off your son at church and hoping he finds God — she calls fathers to again being the best that they can be for themselves but also for their sons — and model the ideal behavior.

My biggest criticism of her books is the way she remains generic towards faith. While a Judeo-Christian concept of God has been foundational to a historical US worldview, I think she should be more honest in explaining the particular faith she holds and its critical nature to our sons of eternal destiny. A general “faith” without conviction is not what we want our sons to have. Is she really advocating to teach our sons about Islam? She remains neutral on how God is defined — without question — to reach a broader audience. But her own faith of Christianity claims exclusivity, and I found it disappointing that she avoided this.

Her book culminates in the 11th Chapter where she calls us to ideate the core virtues we want our sons to have that will ensure they make the transition from boy to man. She emphasizes virtues we all want in our children such as integrity, courage, humility, meekness, and kindness. She doesn’t just introduce these as words but fully fleshes them out into concepts and practical steps to build them in our sons.

She ends the book with 10 tips to remember and a call to double whatever time we currently are investing in our sons. Here are the 10 tips:

1) Know that you change his world 2) Raise him from the inside out (worry about his inner life and the outer life will follow) 3) Help his masculinity to explode 4) Help him find purpose and passion (other than being a video game master) 5) Teach him to serve (this is where Church can come in handy) 6) Insist on self-respect 7) Persevere 8) Be his hero 9) Watch, then watch again (pay close attention to what is going on in his life) 10) Give him the best of yourself (not just the leftovers)